How Fictional Characters Became My Life Coaches (And Why You Should Let Them Coach You Too)

Picture this: It’s 11 PM, you’re scrolling through TikTok, and suddenly a clip from The Devil Wears Prada pops up. There’s Miranda Priestly, gliding through the office with an aura of absolute authority, making everyone question their life choices. And you think to yourself, “I wish I had that level of commanding presence.” Well, my friend, why not? Who says you can’t?

Let me tell you a little secret: a good chunk of my confidence, style, and personality is basically a patchwork quilt of fictional characters. That’s right. I’m walking around channelling a mix of Miranda Priestly, Elle Woods, and a sprinkle of Holly Golightly’s charm for good measure. It’s like having a team of life coaches, except they’re all imaginary, and none of them charge hourly rates. Here’s how it works.

Step 1: Confidence - Borrow It Until It’s Yours

I used to be the kind of person who would apologize if someone bumped into me. Then one day, I thought, “What would Claire Underwood do?” Answer: She’d straighten her back, look them dead in the eye, and deliver a line so cutting it could double as a paper shredder. So, I started pretending I was her. At first, it felt ridiculous. But guess what? No one else knew I was pretending. I started standing taller, speaking more assertively, and saying “no” without feeling like I’d just committed a felony. Turns out, confidence is like a pair of fake designer shoes: nobody can tell it’s not real unless you point it out.

Step 2: Style - Dress Like Your Alter Ego

Fictional characters don’t just inspire us with their personalities; they also serve up endless wardrobe goals. When I’m feeling uninspired, I channel my inner Blair Waldorf. Think structured blazers, elegant headbands, and a touch of preppy chic. On days when I want to feel effortlessly cool, I’ll lean into a Kat Stratford vibe (10 Things I Hate About You), pairing a vintage band tee with high-waisted jeans and boots.

Dressing like your favorite characters isn’t about imitation; it’s about embracing their energy and letting it transform how you carry yourself. Trust me, nothing boosts your mood like walking out the door dressed like the queen of your own story.

Step 3: Personality - The Art of Selective Theft

Here’s the thing about fictional characters: they’re distilled versions of traits we all admire. Take Charlotte York’s grace, add Lorelai Gilmore’s wit, and maybe sprinkle in a bit of Blair Waldorf’s ambition. The trick is to borrow the bits you love and make them your own.

For example, I’ve always admired how Anne Shirley (Anne of Green Gables) finds beauty and wonder in everything, even when life gets tough. So, I started doing that. At first, it felt like I was forcing it, but over time, it became natural. Now, people think I’m endlessly optimistic and creative, when really, I’m just channelling Anne on a good day.

Step 4: Laugh at Yourself (Because They Would)

Not every day is a main-character day. Sometimes you’re the comic relief, and that’s okay. Fictional characters remind us that flaws are part of the charm. When I’m having a clumsy moment, I think of Bridget Jones, laugh it off, and move on. When I’m being overly dramatic, I channel Moira Rose and fully commit to the bit. Life’s more fun when you embrace the chaos.

Fictional characters are like cheat codes for real life. They’ve already figured out how to be confident, stylish, and memorable, so why reinvent the wheel? By borrowing from them, you’re not being fake; you’re curating the best version of yourself. And honestly, if Miranda Priestly can dominate the fashion world, I can dominate my to-do list.

So, the next time you’re feeling stuck, ask yourself: Who do I want to be today? The answer might just be the boost you need. And if anyone questions your newfound swagger, just smile mysteriously and say, “That’s all.” (Thanks, Miranda.)